7 Secrets of Women Who Age Well

If you're in the majority, growing older probably sounds to you like a negative prospect – it means the slow appearance of fine lines, the gradual formation of love handles (and no more fitting into those size 27 jeans), the increasingly frequent aches and pains, the health issues and risks you'll start to face.

But growing older isn't all that, and with the added benefit of experience, maturity, wisdom and perspective, you are all the more capable of living well and enjoying your life as you age.

Learn to embrace change

As you grow older, you'll begin to observe changes. Be it in terms of perspectives or the way you look, you'll realise you're not quite the same as before anymore. And that's okay. Some of us become uncomfortable with ourselves because we believe we've got to look a certain way or be able to do certain things in order to assert who we are.

Know that as we grow older, we're bound to change. We will no longer look or function the same way as we used to. Instead of being fixated with the way you should be, learn to ease into the new you. Just because you are different now than you used to be before doesn't mean you are no longer you. A new you might just bring about a whole new phase of adventures. So just go with the flow!

Eat well

Making healthy eating a sustainable part of your lifestyle may sound tough if you're just starting out, but these healthy eating tips from Mount Elizabeth Hospitals' dietitians show how it's really quite simple.

Women are more prone to heart disease and osteoporosis as we grow older, so it is important we integrate foods into our diets that best protect our bones and our hearts against potential disease.

There is evidence that plant foods – especially wholegrains, legumes, nuts, fruits and vegetables – may decrease the risk of heart disease. Other foods that you can consider making part of your diet is oily fish (eg. mackerel, sardine, tuna and salmon). They contain omega-3 fatty acids, proven to improve blood vessel elasticity and lower blood pressure – which in turn lowers the risk of heart disease, heart attack and stroke. Additionally, these fatty fish provide vitamin D, a vital nutrient for bone health.

Activate positivity and gratitude

Growing old will not always be a bed of roses. While it's not easy to let go or make sense of upsetting situations, find a couple of points you can take and learn from the situation, instead of struggling against it.

Cultivating a posture of gratitude helps us feel happier, improves our relationships with people and boosts our overall quality of life. Studies have shown an association between gratitude and an individual's well-being. Being thankful for what we have instead of focusing on what we lack may be difficult at first, but the good news is that this mental state grows stronger with use and practice.

However, if you find yourself constantly feeling overwhelmed, worried or blue for no apparent reason, don't hesitate to seek professional help from a therapist. Research has shown that women are twice more likely to suffer from depression than men. There is no shame in admitting that things have taken a toll on you, and that you need help. Caring for your mental health is a vital component of ageing well.

Don't stop moving

It is now a known fact that women are more likely to suffer from osteoporosis than men are. Osteoporosis is the degenerating of our bones, resulting in increased fragility. It makes falling a lot scarier as it could mean breaking our bones, which in the worst cases can be fatal. It is important that we continue to build our muscle mass and strength by getting regular workouts and eating a well-balanced diet.

You've probably heard how you should aim to work out at least 3 times a week for 25 minutes each session. As you get older, it is important you train both your stamina and strength. While cardio is great, weight-bearing and resistance exercises are particularly important to improve bone density and avoid osteoporosis in the future. Additionally, it could reduce your risk of heart disease in the long run.

Weight-bearing exercises don't just mean lifting weights. Dancing, hiking, aerobics and tennis are considered weight-bearing exercises as well! For a more low-impact workout, try elliptical training machines, stair-step machines or walking.

Go for regular check-ups

'Prevention is better than cure' is always good advice, and we'll be all the more thankful for heeding it when we're older. Common medical conditions in older women include diabetes, osteoporosis, pneumonia, hearing loss, balance issues, heart disease, etc.

Most of the medical conditions that affect women can be screened for in your earlier years (eg. Pap smear for cervical cancer, pelvic exams, breast screening, bone screening, heart screening), so take that step and go for regular check-ups. If all goes well, you'll have a peace of mind. But if results don't go the way you expect, at least you could be nipping the problem in the bud by getting treated sooner rather than later.

Stay social

Studies have found evidence for the importance of social relationships on health and survival rates in women. Having meaningful relationships and a strong social network helps to protect your brain functions. A lack of relationships and social connections, on the other hand, is associated with depression, greater cognitive decline in later years and increased mortality – one study found that it increases the risk of premature death from all causes by a whopping 50%. This means that not having strong social ties is almost as damaging to our health as smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day, and even more harmful than obesity and physical inactivity.

So prioritise time with family and friends, build your relationships, find hobbies you can do with others – remember that staying socially active doesn't just make life more meaningful and enjoyable, but have far-reaching benefits on our health.

Keep working your brain

The increasing number of older people developing dementia means it is crucial we learn to keep our brains healthy. According to Dr Lee Kim En, neurologist at Mount Elizabeth Hospital, the number of people diagnosed with dementia is alarming – the projected number of patients aged 65 years and above will hit 53,000 by year 2020 and increase to 187,000 by 2050.

Simple lifestyle changes help to make a difference – exercising and stimulating our brains an help to build up cognitive reserve, a buffer that delays deterioration in our brain. Find hobbies that keep your brain engaged and stimulated. Learn a language, play an instrument, go dancing, take a course, go hiking, play board games – your choices are endless!